Fantasies are healthy - people have them all the time and many lovers fantasize during lovemaking with their partners. They should not deprive themselves of personal pleasures when they are alone simply because of some alien moral construct.
Consider the married man who slips online to check out his favorite porn sites. Is he committing a shameful sin: just as with the lonely fantasizing wife the answer to the question is no. In fact, their imaginations will enhance their marital relationships. As they discover what they truly want, sexually, and what provides them with the most pleasure, they can become more articulate and skillful lovers.
Both not only release natural urges, harmlessly and anonymously, they also find out more about what turns them on. No guilt should ever be attached to discovering such pleasures.
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